I'm about to reveal a little-known secret
of human
persuasion that can induce the woman to feel complete trust for you,
and have sex with you... even if it's the very first date.
You see, for a woman to have sex with a guy, she
must not only be attracted to him, but she must also trust him. Look at
it like this:
1. Trust Without Attraction = "He's a great friend
and I love him to death!" (Translation: "We'll NEVER have sex!")
2. Attraction Without Trust = "I'm not a loose
woman. He'll have to wait before he gets any!"
However, if the woman has both attraction AND
trust for the guy, she'll be literally begging you to take her home
with you that night.
Let's take a typical scenario. Say it's coming up
on 11 PM, and you've been with a woman since 6 that afternoon. As long
as you've had good rapport with her and you've kept pushing the
interaction forward, you can assume she's attracted to you.
And by the way, with a woman, you should always
assume attraction until proven otherwise. Because the bottom line is
that as long as you've got good body language, you've got a lot going
on in your life, and you're witty and interesting, she WILL be
attracted to you.
Now you need to build trust. By the time you
finish this article, you'll know an easy, efficient way to do that.
And by the way, this is a one of the best-kept
secrets of human persuasion. The most successful advertisers and
salesmen to make billions use it, and now you'll be able to use it with
women.
Have you ever noticed how ads will sometimes
mention minor defects in the products? A famous example of this was the
wildly success Volkswagen Beetle ads from 30 years ago that had the
huge headline: "Lemon."
The point of the ad was that not all of their cars
were perfect. VW took its quality inspections so seriously that it took
note of even small weaknesses in the builds of its cars.
You see, if a person tells you something that's
against his self-interest, you tend to trust him more. We all do. It's
a fundamental trait of human psychology.
So when it comes to women, you should point out
your minor flaws. Examples could be:
- "I have an ugly mole on my neck. Sometimes I feel self-conscious
about it."
- "I had to give a speech last week and felt so nervous!"
- "I don't always floss my teeth even though I should."
Even if they're fake flaws, it doesn't necessarily
matter. By pointing them out, you create a perception of honesty within
the woman.
Because she believes the minor imperfections about
you, she'll believe the MAJOR PERFECTIONS about you as well.
This means that, having both attraction for AND
trust in you, later that night she could be breathlessly panting, "I've
never done it with a guy this soon before!"
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
John Alexander is author of How
to Become an Alpha Male, a seduction success guide for men.
Learn the 7 Step Seduction System that takes you from saying "hello" to
a new woman... to sharing orgasms in bed with her... in just one
evening!